lazeerer
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Hey All,
Just wanted to give this Update that iam back Now.
Most of you already know why i was gone for around a month but for those that dont it was due to my Grandfather passing.
If you want to read about him send me a PM and ill give you the link as we had it posted in the local newspaper. I dont want to post it on the open forum.
He was in the hostpital for about 1 week before he passed. Then once he passed it was very hard on me and my family as we where all
Very close to each other.
The Next few days me and my sister had to figure out the funeral arrangements etc. Since my Grandma and parents are really old school and
Real don't understand much how things go here as they are all original from Greece and things are alot different out there in the old times.
SO they relied on us to pt everything together.
So from he time he was emitted into the hospital to the time we had the funeral was about 2 weeks.
I was somewhat active then but not much. Thats when i had mentioned to as many as i could the my grandfather had died.
So after that my grandmother (His Wife) Went into a sever breakdown and depression. This was Hard on me but by this time i have come with it.
But she Dint. Seems like it was Worse. (She took it really hard guys.)
So due to my sister not living close enough and could not take the time off work to stay with her i did.
I stayed with her so she was not alone as now since my grandfather was no longer with us she had no one in her house. So i commuted out of her house.
For about 2 weeks to keep her company and help around.
There is no internet access there but even if there was i probably would not have got online during this time as not only was i
taking care of her during this time but now had to deal with all the paper work that comes with someones death.
This was extremely frustrating as my grandfather did not really leave a will so when he passed he dint leave anyone (Power of Attorney) "I guess that's what they call it"
to be able to get any information on him to fill in paper work for my grandmother.
So came the frustrating part in having to get a lawyer to help make my grandmother power of atterney so that we can talk to Medicare and deal with what he left behind
to her and us etc.
So for the remaining of the time that was what i was dealing with and during this time i was un active.
I was suppose to come back last week as my father (My grandfather and grandmother son) was going to take over as i could no
longer take any more time off. So once he came to take over in care of her it seemed that i needed to show him what ive been doing to keep her somewhat happy
or not in a depressed state.. Plus i just dint want to just leave like that on her so i took a little more time and came back this week.
So this has been extremely hard on me and the family. I really needed this time off. I would never go un active like this
Unless something terrible happened like so. But i did mention to several upon several people what i was going through and it seems they
relayed the message to a few more as i started to get emails (In the beginning when i was still active a little) with people sending me there kind words.
It seems more have sent more kind words too now that i read a few more emails.
THANK YOU EVERYONE THAT SENT KIND WORDS. Really it does Help alot. SO thank You.
THANK YOU FOR THE CARD ALSO MARK. I really appreciate you sending it. I have it right on my desk now.
Whats also great is i got the swapbox in last week and openend it last night and that really cheered me up!
So iam back now from all this and the time took off has helped me come with his death and move on. So i appreciate everyone allowing me this
time to heal over it. It was just enough.
Here is my plain:
So iam going to jump right back in where i left off but i have a few priority people to take care of and get out first.
It seems just scanning through some of my PM and Email Tittles that there is a Bunch of (I want to buy stuff) and several HELP emails.
I have 3 people i need to ship out to that will be Tuesday or as soon as i get a responce from them as these where the projects i was working on around his passing and have waited the longest..
Once i get out these packages tomorrow I will then take on any new orders and respomd to those needing my help to the best i can.
Though please Please note its alot for me to take in all at once. There is alot of people wanting to place new orders SO please give me the time to respond to get to everyone request before sending more request.
maybe Sunday.
So if you sent me a mail then give me a day or 2 to answer from today. If you sent multiply PM's which i see alot did i will try to answer all them in 1 responce to limit the amount of PMs i send out to try and get through it faster for you guys.
Other then the few people i have projects on (Which are done and ready to ship) I have a clear plate so i should be able to get things out to everyone fairly quick.
So thats my plain.
Thanks for listening guys and thanks even more for giving me the time off and not giving me a hard time about it. The time was good.
SO now iam back and back to normal again. (Might take me a few more days to be actively posting on the forum but i will be on answering my PMs/emails)
Thanks,
Lazeerer
THanks for listening.
Just wanted to give this Update that iam back Now.
Most of you already know why i was gone for around a month but for those that dont it was due to my Grandfather passing.
If you want to read about him send me a PM and ill give you the link as we had it posted in the local newspaper. I dont want to post it on the open forum.
He was in the hostpital for about 1 week before he passed. Then once he passed it was very hard on me and my family as we where all
Very close to each other.
The Next few days me and my sister had to figure out the funeral arrangements etc. Since my Grandma and parents are really old school and
Real don't understand much how things go here as they are all original from Greece and things are alot different out there in the old times.
SO they relied on us to pt everything together.
So from he time he was emitted into the hospital to the time we had the funeral was about 2 weeks.
I was somewhat active then but not much. Thats when i had mentioned to as many as i could the my grandfather had died.
So after that my grandmother (His Wife) Went into a sever breakdown and depression. This was Hard on me but by this time i have come with it.
But she Dint. Seems like it was Worse. (She took it really hard guys.)
So due to my sister not living close enough and could not take the time off work to stay with her i did.
I stayed with her so she was not alone as now since my grandfather was no longer with us she had no one in her house. So i commuted out of her house.
For about 2 weeks to keep her company and help around.
There is no internet access there but even if there was i probably would not have got online during this time as not only was i
taking care of her during this time but now had to deal with all the paper work that comes with someones death.
This was extremely frustrating as my grandfather did not really leave a will so when he passed he dint leave anyone (Power of Attorney) "I guess that's what they call it"
to be able to get any information on him to fill in paper work for my grandmother.
So came the frustrating part in having to get a lawyer to help make my grandmother power of atterney so that we can talk to Medicare and deal with what he left behind
to her and us etc.
So for the remaining of the time that was what i was dealing with and during this time i was un active.
I was suppose to come back last week as my father (My grandfather and grandmother son) was going to take over as i could no
longer take any more time off. So once he came to take over in care of her it seemed that i needed to show him what ive been doing to keep her somewhat happy
or not in a depressed state.. Plus i just dint want to just leave like that on her so i took a little more time and came back this week.
So this has been extremely hard on me and the family. I really needed this time off. I would never go un active like this
Unless something terrible happened like so. But i did mention to several upon several people what i was going through and it seems they
relayed the message to a few more as i started to get emails (In the beginning when i was still active a little) with people sending me there kind words.
It seems more have sent more kind words too now that i read a few more emails.
THANK YOU EVERYONE THAT SENT KIND WORDS. Really it does Help alot. SO thank You.
THANK YOU FOR THE CARD ALSO MARK. I really appreciate you sending it. I have it right on my desk now.
Whats also great is i got the swapbox in last week and openend it last night and that really cheered me up!
So iam back now from all this and the time took off has helped me come with his death and move on. So i appreciate everyone allowing me this
time to heal over it. It was just enough.
Here is my plain:
So iam going to jump right back in where i left off but i have a few priority people to take care of and get out first.
It seems just scanning through some of my PM and Email Tittles that there is a Bunch of (I want to buy stuff) and several HELP emails.
I have 3 people i need to ship out to that will be Tuesday or as soon as i get a responce from them as these where the projects i was working on around his passing and have waited the longest..
Once i get out these packages tomorrow I will then take on any new orders and respomd to those needing my help to the best i can.
Though please Please note its alot for me to take in all at once. There is alot of people wanting to place new orders SO please give me the time to respond to get to everyone request before sending more request.
maybe Sunday.
So if you sent me a mail then give me a day or 2 to answer from today. If you sent multiply PM's which i see alot did i will try to answer all them in 1 responce to limit the amount of PMs i send out to try and get through it faster for you guys.
Other then the few people i have projects on (Which are done and ready to ship) I have a clear plate so i should be able to get things out to everyone fairly quick.
So thats my plain.
Thanks for listening guys and thanks even more for giving me the time off and not giving me a hard time about it. The time was good.
SO now iam back and back to normal again. (Might take me a few more days to be actively posting on the forum but i will be on answering my PMs/emails)
Thanks,
Lazeerer
THanks for listening.
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