I'm using this
CREE driver.
When you put these drivers into these brass rings, you have to be very careful.
I'm sure you've noticed, but the brass ring curves in on the end, and if any of the driver's traces or components are near the edge of the board, they can make contact with this brass ring and short it out.
Does your battery get hot when you try to turn your laser on?
Can you use a multimeter and test the output wires and see if you're getting any voltage.
Also test your batteries.
If your not getting anything on your multimeter, then the problem lies in either your driver or the battery.
typically if the diode is dead, you'll still get a dim glow from it.
Take a look at this:
http://mohgasm.com/JAD.html
even though the drivers are different, the same concept apply. take a look at the 4th picture where everything is checked for short (the picture full of red arrows) and you'll see what i mean about the brass pill and driver. i don't know how your driver works or its layout, but it's possible that some of the components could be shorting out against the brass ring.
ALSO. I apply the solder to the driver and brass ring before pressing it into the pill. If they are not secured to each other beforehand, it can cause them to shift around, causing a short.
Lastly. Frustration is perfectly normal. If you go back and look at my first posts. I was SSOOOO mad. I burned through like 6 red diodes before getting my first successful completion. It's trial and error.
Now, I can't even remember the last time i killed a diode (on accident, anyways)