Lol @ this thread.
Hak - it's not worth even engaging TJ. Put him on your ignore list. There's nothing you'll be missing. I know it takes some guts to self-impose a filter that removes your view of what another member may be saying, particularly if it's a member that may have a history of trolling you, and thus you may be filtering out things that they're saying
about you . But it's honestly the only way to deal with TJ. You have to understand that he works by trying to engage you (or whomever he is trolling) by presenting some sort of proposition that he hopes will put you on the defensive.
That's how he works. That's his entire persona summarized in a dozen words. If you ignore him, you'll potentially miss out on reading things he may be saying about you. I recognize that this is a bit uncomfortable and tough to accept, but it also means you'll miss out on getting pulled into his little circular unimportant drama festivals, which is seriously rewarding
Don't address him, don't respond to him, ignore him in the forum software if you're gutsy enough to, and then just have faith in the fact that most of the people on this forum are good guys. Most of them are smart rationale human beings, able to properly weight a comment based on who has, made it, and the circumstances surrounding it.
In sum, all you've got to do to deal with TJ, is have the guts NOT TO. Unsubscribe from this thread, knowing full well that he'll say something to keep you going, but just be okay with letting him have the last word.