welcome aboard, lazergurl!
its good you found your way here, much knowledge can be found here, and there are many smart people just waiting to answer any possible question you have (on lasers, at least)!
[i first saw your first message in the other topic, before i found this here!]
this particulary topic here is a bit over your "regular laser-toy". in fact the laser discussed here is so dangerous, it would easily melt/scorch many things, including cardboard, cd-cases, skin and
eyes!
i think a regular laser(-pointer) is just perfect for first experimentation. the outputpower is what counts, you want something in between 1 and 5 mw, and whatever happens, nothing over 20mw. 5mw is fine, no matter what people (sellers?) tell you!
your "he-ne" laser is a good point to start too!
there are green laserpointers available as well by now. they are a bit more expensive, but much fun too! people here will surely suggest an affordable safe green pointer.
the perhaps more important thing about lasers (after safety! this is the absolute first thing to consider, people damaged their eyes irreparably already!) is what to do with it. shining a dot around gets boring after some time..
some classic experiments are, for example, the "spirograph" and the "liquid sky". it will keep your son a good while off the computer, is doable (perhaps with a bit help), and he will learn a lot!
some topics here, scroll through them and stop at the pics, it may be a bit much to read for the beginning ;-)
http://www.laserpointerforums.com/forums/YaBB.pl?num=1236542171
http://www.laserpointerforums.com/forums/YaBB.pl?num=1227337183
http://www.laserpointerforums.com/forums/YaBB.pl?num=1224028223
http://www.laserpointerforums.com/forums/YaBB.pl?num=1236316279
lasers are a great hobby, if done with common sense. it can be dangerous, but the risks are not hard to deal with, if one uses his head actually. it can be a quite expensive hobby too, in the long term, not even talking about timeconsuming, but its worth every penny and minute! i bet others will agree here ;-)
you perhaps knew much of what i wrote already, but hey, you never know who else may find this useful!
you are very welcome to hang around here, read through some topics, ask questions, and, show us "the other side": with many hobbyists here, but not many "parents all new to the topic, exploring with their kids"
so far for a "short" reply, will write more, in any direction you like!
manuel