The relevent information for that oscillator is in its data sheet, it should output a square wave with between 60/40 to 40/60 duty cycle (ie, +/-10%), with rise and fall times <6ns.
Since the rf transmitter will be putting out a sine wave, I would recommend running it through a buffer of sorts, any reasonably fast ttl not-gate should work fine (then you also have the right chip for making a crystal oscillator when you get bored of having a rc car remote ducttaped your laser).
Good luck with your laser, but I would definitely look into what was causing the failures of those oscillators. Those things don't just die on their own, and are usually pretty well protected from short/reflected power/etc (they are basically the same thing as the output from any standard ttl logic chip). So the first thing I would check is the 5v supply and make sure there is nothing weird going on there, and when its running make sure that the output of the oscillator still looks like square wave (anything else would indicate something being reflected back into the oscillator, which will probably kill it).
Finally, I find it highly unlikely that 2 of these boards would have had the oscillator of all things fail, so I would bet that you were either feeding them with something ugly, that there is a loose connection somewhere in your setup (I would check the rf cable for breaks, and the connectors on the laser for anything interesting), or that there is a more prone component on the board that is failing and taking the oscillator (and probably a few other parts in the rf circuit) with it.