Does your GF/Wife/BF hate your lasers and LPF? (Pick 2)

[sandidgepatrick]

my X could care less about them she couldnt understand why im so into lasers her theory is its a coverup and im chatting with other girls online...lol 1year and i had to show her the door life is much better now alot less stressful 4sure..

 

[AUTO XX]

I have been of work for a year as of today and workmans comp only pays 65% of my normal wage so I am currently broke. As soon as I get working again and get caught up I will break up with her, we have been together for almost 11 years and she keeps getting worse and fatter!

A judge might look at the fact that you are underemployed and take it easier on you.

I hear you about the women not taking care of themselves.
They just don't seem to get it, people do the things they do for a reason. If you aren't physically attracted to her, you don't enjoy her company, she does nothing to improve herself, etc.
WHY WOULD YOU STAY WITH HER?
They must figure because you are married, you HAVE to stay.
It's no wonder divorce rates are so high...

My buddy has been living in the basement for 15 years because she is Catholic aka, she won't give him any because sex is only to increase the number of the herd. :na:
I think it is a mixed blessing though, she is truly disgusting in both mind and body.
He has a little Phillipino girlfriend on the side now so he isn't doing too bad.
It was funny having to give his battery a boost when he was out "parked" with her a few months ago.
*Remember to turn off your lights* :crackup:

 

[TeufelWolf]

Obesity is one the few birth control methods approved by the catholic church.

So is the dislike many of your SO's have for this because of the time, money or fear you'll set the cat on fire?

I'm always been the fiscally mature one in my relationships, so I pay the bills, invest, save, and then blow money on rifles, swords, lasers, and 4 TB hard drive arrays.... Being that we are DINK (Double Income, No Kids) the SO has her own money to blow on crime novels.

Although I know how a lot of my co-workers had to give up dangerous and expensive hobbies when they got married or especially when they had kids - sometimes at the goading of the SO, but sometimes it seems to be be their own choice... One day Guns and Lasers are COOL - wife gets pregnant - ZOMG Guns and Lasers need to be BANNED.

One of my friends got married and wanted to buy a house, and his parents agreed to help him with the cost, but he had to first sell off all his comics, swords, and collectibles because he parents wanted to see a "display of maturity".

 

[Arayan]

My wife is not interested in lasers, but sometimes she likes to see some new "visual effects"

 

[00Giorge]

We are not married! After 2 divorces I said I would never get married again. Both of my exes are still good looking, they just can't keep their legs together (cheaters).
The 2nd one went mental and was addicted to presciption drugs (xanax). I came home one day and a big guy just walked into the house and wanted to know where she was. He was escorted out the door with a 44mag. I didn't take too much thinking to figure out what was going on.

My gf now thinks that when I am on LPF I am chating with girls, she doesn't say too much any more but still thinks it's stupid. I told her to take a flying leap. Sometimes she is ok but freaks out about little shit. Keeps saying she is going to go back to Oregon, I told her I would help her pack and get a U haul. But she never keeps up on the promise.

By the way HAPPY THANKS GIVING!

 

[phoenix77]

My WIFE needs kudo's for that. Not only does she LIKE my lasers, one time,just by scrounging $$$ here & there, saved up enough badly needed money for bills, etc, & bought me a rather inexpensive (I liked the host) Green Laser for a FATHERS DAY gift.
Yeah, my wife DESERVES to be put on a pedestal, just for that gesture alone........rob

 

[AUTO XX]

Damn, thats impressive.
I'm sure mine would buy me a laser for xmas if she knew much about them :na:
You are gonna have to hang onto that girl Rob

 

[00Giorge]

You need to hang on to the good ones, treat them like a queen. A good woman with no baggage is hard to find, for me at least.

 

[TeufelWolf]

I'm always dated in the "freak market" - Goths, Pagans, RenFaire/SCA. They tend to be more tolerant of weird hobbies when they already have weird hobbies.

 

[AUTO XX]

I have found that "treating them like a queen" isn't a good strategy either.
I tease mine mercilessly but the little things like holding her chair, opening doors, doing the dishes, etc. seem to tell her I give a rip
I treated my first girlfriend like a queen... Error in judgment.
She told me that I was too nice and bailed for a "bad boy"
I now believe in "cocky with a bit of chivalry thrown in", I have never said "I love you" and I compliment her in an asshole way.
If I mean "wow, you look great" when she asks how she looks I'll say: "You look kinda allright... a bit... sometimes... on tuesdays... " and then give her the grin that tells her I'm kidding.
When we are going out or something and she has put a lot of effort into her appearance I am a little over the top "holy catfish batman, you look amazing!"
It stuns her and you can just watch the self esteem blossom.
I guess it works but marriage would kill it pretty quick.
You want to make a chick (or a guy for that matter) stop trying? Marry that person. When you don't HAVE to try to keep that person, there is no reason to do so. We are lazy, if it ain't broke don't fix it. Few people are willing to be proactive in a marriage like they are with a girlfriend/boyfriend. I will date for the rest of my life because I like to "woo" my gf every day, I just do it my own way
Just my $.02, this is just what I would have wanted to know when I started out. :beer:

 

[Ignis Fatuus]

^^ How do you get laid? I'm the bad boy type, and I treat my GF with way more respect, and she gives me the same in return. I still tell her I love her at least 5 times a day after 12 years (no joke), and she'll does what ever I want. In fact she knows what I want before I even ask. And I give the same back to her.

It only takes 2 things for a quality relationship. One is you have to find a woman that has little to no baggage. And two, make sure you're compatible. Most relationships start to fast, and over physical attraction. You're already doomed before you start, because the physical only lasts so long. Also people have manners in the beginning of every relationship. You have to give it time to find out who the person is after AFTER the manners are gone. Also dont defeat yourself with stupid formulas for treating them. Every woman is different, and should be treated accordingly. Those stupid games are worthless, unless you're just trying to score. No woman is going to respect a man who is trying to control them, or kiss their ass. Treat them like people and you will always benefit.

Last of all, dont be silly, and wrap your willy till you find out the kind of woman your with. Condoms suck, but not as bad as getting a psychopath, insecure, freak pregnant.

 

[AUTO XX]

Ain't that the truth, I woke up one time with my ex gf on top of me in the middle of the night. Not good.
Don't get me wrong, I am kind and sincere, I have literally never lied to her (except obviously jokingly) and she knows it.
I don't say "I love you" because I don't believe in love or rather, I don't put any faith in it.
Love is nothing more than a chemical interaction in your coconut and it is driven by instinct. Instinct has very little place in my decisions because it is not driven by logic.
I tell her that I like being with her and enjoy her company but after explaining this to her, she gets it.
She has never pressured me by saying it and I respect her even more for that.
I tease all the time, just like I tickle.
It drives her nuts but she can't get enough of it. Me paying attention to her is what she wants and I am all too happy to indulge that
I have a few friends that never seem to "like" the women they are with, the head games are all it is about. I might tease a lot but I also get serious and make her feel special.

 

[00Giorge]

Ignis I couldn't agree more. Everyone has a different personality and is treated the way that goes with their individual personatlity, some like being treated like a queen some don't. Some of them like the "bad boy" and others prefer the polite guy or a geek. I dated one gal that told me the woman in her family don't work, they are stay at home housewives, I told her "see ya later" and never dated her again. I went out with some that were "physco" and the best sex I ever had. I wouldn't live with them or marry them since they were off their rocker. I like them stable not crazy or lazy!

My 2nd ex thinks I am a total asshole, coming from her that was a compliment. I am set in my ways and will never change. If a woman thinks she can change me she is sadly mistaken.

 

[Ignis Fatuus]

@ Auto As long as you two are on an even playing field, all the power to you.

@ George No one should be trying to change anyone. Thats the whole point.

 

[00Giorge]

^ I agree with you 100%, but some don't see it that way they think they change you into something they want, instead of leaving you the way you are. I can see changing some what to fit the needs of an individual, but not like some want. My 2nd ex thought she could change me into what she wanted. Boy was she wrong!

 

[Ignis Fatuus]

Those the main reasons I've never been married, or had kids. Sounds shallow, but its the way I am. My GF has no need to get married either, so thats another good virtue. Seriously I'm very lucky, and try my hardest not to screw it up. I do have to play the father figure in the relationship, but it could be way worst.