OK so i knocked one of these up and now that my lavadrives arrived today, i have some result (of sorts).
Firstly, big thanks to Benm for sharing this info and for helping me nut out some problems i had initially getting it cracking.
Here is my 2 versions, firstly got it layed out on a breadboard to test the circuit and see how it went, then put it onto some project board and wired it up. In the wired version i have since also added a thermal bridge between the heater and the sensor diode using a piece of black anodized heatsink shaved down to 0.5mm thick and bonded with a thermal epoxy (sparingly).
Results so far are:
PHR-803T @ 121ma = 85mw in aixiz housing with plastic lens.
now while that might seem a little low, there are 2 possible reasons.
1. i had some problems with the lavadrive in that i applied a 4 doide dummy load @4.6v set it to 100ma. I found that as the voltage dropped, the output increased, A LOT to over 120ma at under 4V, i wasn't expecting that and i think i'm going to get some 10440's and build a current regulated design which will be rock solid (or lower) as the battery voltage falls. 3x10440's in the housing i've got will easily give me enough voltage for a 317T type supply (but using smaller parts).
2. Once i hooked the diode up to the lavadrive and measured the current again, the minimum i could get reading on my DMM was 121ma before it flicked to 200+ ... NOW .. that's where the problem comes in, i might of damaged my diode in doing so (unfocused it has a dark spot on one side now). User error, live and learn, i have some fresh sleds to harvest so i'm going to play around with it and probably/ hopefully have one of my own drivers assembled to fit into the housing.
If anyone else is considering making this project, PLEASE DO. Its really not that hard, all the parts i got from my local electronics shop cost me <$15 and i had enough to make 2 complete circuits (i always buy extras just in case!).
I am eagerly awaiting Benm's results on the tested green unit that he's got coming to see how accurate it is.