No need to be rude... I have read the FAQ, in fact I personally know Sam and have contributed sections over the last decade, although admittedly small compared to the vast amount he has written.
I said several times that ANY high powered laser is dangerous. My point is simply that there is no reason to fear CO2 any more than any other high powered laser. Watt for Watt it is not AS dangerous as shorter wavelength lasers, and it is easier to protect yourself from it. I never said anything about 40W directly to the eye, we were talking about accidental reflections. 40W to the eye for any length of time will cause serious damage, period. 40mW of visible or near IR to the eye will damage your retina.
For the record, I have several 1W 445s of the type people are building into pointers that I've built into lab lasers. One of those easily lights cardboard on fire from across the room and cuts materials. I have kept my skin out of the beam for obvious reasons but I have no doubt that it would cause some serious damage. In addition to these risks, direct and diffuse reflections can blind you. I'm honestly amazed that there haven't been more reports of injuries from these things.