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Richie89

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Along the road of life we will inevitably encounter painful events, this is something we all have in common and we can take solace in knowing that we are not alone in this, I won't carry on about all of my pain but know I have had my share and then some. Something I have been reminded of when sad is that things could be worse and one day likely will be, so be happy for what you have and try to make the most of it, remember that time heals and there are brighter days still ahead as you hang in there and grow strong again.
very encouraging words Red and you're right, I can only imagine that some people in this world have it way worse, things happen in life that are very painful and I need to remember that I should certainly be thankful for the things I do have and try to move on. time definitely does heal and I really appreciate your input and words of wisdom :)
I am sorry for your loss and the pain you have felt over this relationship, Richie. It is true that the pain we feel is always somehow connected to what our expectations were and once you have no expectations, you will get over it. I have been married three times and the loss of the first one hurt the worst at that time. But, we often attribute better than human qualities to the people we choose to love. I get more happiness out of my relationship with my daughter because it is a totally unconditional love and never depends on what she does or doesn't do to or for me. Women are no better than men when it comes to being faithful or bothering to work on a relationship, though some of us tend to think of them as being above all that. I'm glad you are on the mend. Sounds like you still have most of your life ahead of you, so take comfort in that thought and try to live in the present. Too many people tend to live in the past or for the future when life is happening now. Good luck to you, Richie.
amen Paul, that was definitely my problem, I held a deep grudge against my ex, and for what? all that is gonna do is make me miserable. I shouldn't let her ruin my life anymore than she already has, I need to forget her as fast as possible because all that will do is make life better for me. After all, I haven't touched laser since the break up. I shouldn't do that. like you all said, don't live in the past, live for the future. I thank you all for helping me in my time of need, it truly appreciate it.
 

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Sorry to hear that Richie.
I'm glad you are feeling better and make sure you get lasering again. :)
Good to see you back. (y)
 

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Hi R 89,
Hey a little late sorry, but I been through many relationships , and the one you were in as you described was an accident waiting to happen.
I know you must have been feeling really bad and wanted to end your existence when I heard that I wanted to reach through this screen a give you a bitch slap. Bottom line is your GF had some bad issues and was in need of serious help. Glad to see you back been a long time without you here posting. Chin up buddy try to forget about her there are plenty of nice woman out there . So put your dancing shoes of and go out and get some one you will be compatible with. Don't settle for the First Lady that comes along fish the pond a while.
Hope I shed some light and hope you feel better every day Pal.

Dear Abby :)
 

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To quote John Prine, "Dear Abby, dear Abby, my fountain pen leaks, my wife hollers at me, my kids are all freaks, every side I get up on is the wrong side of bed, if it weren't so expensive I'd wish I were dead. Signed........unhappy." "Unhappy, unhappy you have no complaints, you are what you are and you ain't what you ain't. So, listen up buster and listen up good. Stop wishing for bad luck and knocking on wood."
 

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Hello there Hap. It's been a while and it's Good 2CU :D
 

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Hi Alex,
Wow been a while hope things are getting a little better for you and the family . Glad to see you here again hope you stick around more now.

Rich:)
 

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Hi R 89,
Hey a little late sorry, but I been through many relationships , and the one you were in as you described was an accident waiting to happen.
I know you must have been feeling really bad and wanted to end your existence when I heard that I wanted to reach through this screen a give you a bitch slap. Bottom line is your GF had some bad issues and was in need of serious help. Glad to see you back been a long time without you here posting. Chin up buddy try to forget about her there are plenty of nice woman out there . So put your dancing shoes of and go out and get some one you will be compatible with. Don't settle for the First Lady that comes along fish the pond a while.
Hope I shed some light and hope you feel better every day Pal.

Dear Abby :)
hey Rich, glad too hear from you. "bitch slap" lmao! I almost feel out of my chair when I read that LOL! yeah she definitely had issues and I didn't need that in my life for sure. thanks so much buddy :) funny thing is that I broke my laptop because I was mad at her, but I ended up going to BestBuy and got a good deal on a Dell. its the Inspiron 13 7000 with Ryzen5. I really wanted Intel but I figured id give AMD another chance.
thanks Alien, im glad to hear from you :)
Good to hear from you Richie! :)

-Alex
thanks so much Alex :)
 

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Hi Richie,
Glad you seen the light buddy , now get back on your bike again and fish that pond for a keeper . Hopefully you will come through , but dont just settle for anything on a rebound that is a recipe for disaster. Oh and when you get angry stop breaking stuff it costs to much money. This way you can buy more laser stufff..
Rich:)
 




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