Thanks for posting Alaskan!
Agreed. I just simply don't understand why so many people focus on money instead of helping one another? Is it just me? I know there are tons of good people out there, but there is an overwhelming majority of corrupt, stupid people(and I hate to say it). Imagine how far humans could have gone in 2015.... *sigh*-Alex
Everything is possible in imagination---not so in the real world. $5 for a cup of coffee is reality , a $5 ride to Mars is never going to be.
Money exchanged for goods and services is people helping other people all day long without having to have "personal" baggage attached to the relationship. What do you imagine trade/exchange of money is if not people helping people?
Humans have not changed much in the last 3500 years and there is no indication it is ever going to be any different.
Your recurring/repeated posts about people helping others sounds like typical teenage fears about growing up and having to be an adult in an adult world where individual responsibility for yourself and then later other responsibilities on your own without help is essential.
How are you going to "help" others unless you can help youself. Is all part of growing up and becoming an adult. Even under best circumstances nobody can be anyone else and ability to "help" and time for same is limited.
From good article Why People Fear Growing Up and Functioning as Adults.
"1. Symbolic separation from parents and other individuals who have offered some sense of security. This occurs as we mature, form a new and different identity, choose our own path in life and establish new relationships. These types of separation experiences can arouse a sense of loss related and fear. When we are anxious or frightened, we tend to reconnect to dependency bonds."
"2. Preference for fantasy as a defense mechanism over reality considerations. Painful events in childhood often lead to suppression, dissociation and varying degrees of retreat into fantasy processes. These habit patterns become addictive and long lasting."
"3. The threat of feeling one’s aloneness. Knowing ourselves as independent, authentic adults makes us acutely aware of painful existential issues. In addition, there is a fear of being different or standing out from the crowd. This is related to the primitive evolutionarily based threat of being separated or ostracized from the tribe, which is emotionally equivalent to being left to die."
See article:
Why Are People Afraid to Grow Up?
Growing up and emotional maturity allows you to take charge of your life. You have your own vision for your life and your own ambition for success. Focusing on realising your vision, you can create a happy, healthy life where you respect yourself and others. When you develop emotional maturity, life becomes a joy rather than a chore. Your happiness and fulfilment are in your hands. To be mature is to have knowledge and experience about the way the world works, and to have adapted accordingly.
Edit: Hap, I understand why people focus on money, you can get just about anything you want with it, keeping yourself out of the cold and well fed. The problem is due to individuality, from birth we are set up to look out for ourselves first, and rightly so. It's a survival mechanism, but those who also value the survival of their brothers and sisters are part of that survival mechanism too, we have survived as a species due to our ability to be selfish as well as unselfish at times too. There is a strange contradiction in humanity, when things are going well lots of people tend to be more selfish, when things are going bad, a lot of people are more giving. Now, if it realllly gets bad, I think the coin might just flip to the other side again to where we are capable of eating others to survive.
Excellent poimts!--- One man's meat, is another man's person ~ Old Cannibal Saying, is pretty much a metaphor for how things are today for the most part.. Social priorities are what they are for real and valid reasons.
Depends on where you find your moral bedrock, the statement can easily be reversed.
"I just simply don't understand why so many people focus on helping one another instead of money?"
To the point, point! Money and exchange of money for goods and services is people helping people all over the world every day---without all the personal and emptional baggage associated. Doing something of value to other people is doing something worth money.
People care about what other people do in the real world of everyday llife--- what they say or think about it means little if at all to other people, generally and functionally speaking.