Nice work, I need to copy your post to a Word doc. as a reference. I've been looking into using the same parts too, have more than one of those lasers. First, I'd like to produce 1064 nm, as you are working towards. I need an optics board too, I will look into the double density boards too, didn't know they offered those. Good work exploring the options on getting things machined and Fusion 360, another thing I need to check out.
What I've come to confirm is intracavity SHG is the only way to go for us at these power levels, well, at least for myself. Intracavity makes it far more involved to get something working, but supports the high gain needed.