There is a DEFINITE variance from person to person, this occurs on the low end of the wavelength spectrum as well. I have a very hard time seeing a 808nm (I can see it, but its EXTREMELY DIM), however, a friend of mine can see an 808nm laser alot easier. He can point out the dot almost instantly.
In the same aspect, I have a 375nm blacklight pen which is visible to me, easily, but my friend has a much harder time seeing that than i do.
I suppose it varies from person to person, but I would say ~850nm is the highest that is visible.