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I just said something too open hearted and honest not to be attacked for it.
It's not merely sharing your opinion that's the problem. It's asserting you are right and everyone else is wrong, and providing no evidence. And on top of that, playing the victim when you're met with criticism.
To me, it is more important to be kind to one another than to be right, in the long run, if we are wrong about something show one another your viewpoint, just maybe, possibly, there is just a misunderstanding instead of someone being wrong
This is a valid point. You typically change more minds with amiability. But a true scientist will value an argument based on its merit, NOT on the specifics of how it is presented, nor on who presented it.