This question really depends on many, many factors relating to the design and quality of the pointer, and if it has a IR filter installed. IR filters in Chinese lasers are usually a blue-green piece of glass at the end of the optics train.
The IR scatter is usually almost always Ok from a distance of two or three feet, except in really high power devices. The easiest way to be sure to avoid DIRECT IR without instruments is to keep your head out of a 25 degree wide cone around the end of the laser for a distance of say 3 feet.
I'd follow that rule to say 75 mW. ABOVE THAT, ALL BETS ARE OFF.
You'll find lots of posts here where one user assumes his measurements or logic applies to all pointers and other DPSS. In reality it depends on a case to case basis.
The easiest way to find the 808 nm pump light would be a IR capable black and white security camera or older black and white web cam. Some color cameras will view really BRIGHT IR, but most color cameras have a IR blocking filter. If its there, its a diverging halo around the green beam.
The response of a silicon or CCD camera to 1064 nm leakage is NIL. The easiest way to find any 1064 is with a IR viewing card or IR image converter and a prism or transmisson grating. 1064 will tend to be very weak and colinear with the 532 nm beam. 808 usually is diverging fast if it leaks out, because it diverges rapidly past the monolithic crystal in the laser. 808 nm pump is focused inside the laser to create enough energy density to pump the YAG, thus it does not come out of the yag at a optimal angle for the collimator to work, and is diverging like mad.
That is NOT to say it is weak in all designs and qualities of laser. Most manufacturers put the filter in, for a reason. A 30 mW laser is not likely to leak much IR, but again, at 1$ a mW, you have no idea what your getting. You should never look down the bore at a laser that stops emitting green. That is when the real IR hazards can arise, when the pointer has been dropped or tampered with.
Therefore err on the safe side. The primary rule is NEVER get exposed in the first place. The secondary rule is observe and measure until your sure. The Other rule is NEVER trust anybody who does not document experience with YOUR laser.
8 years as a university LSO. Working with IR and Vis lasers since 1986.
Well, some folks say 1776.
Steve