I don't mind.
I know how it is. People on forums are so used to trolls and lazy people that they don't expect it when someone with legit questions and no time asks for help.
Between the kids and the job I have to try and pack about 30 hours of work into a day. (I get 6 hours of sleep on a good day.) I have not been able to play video games or watch TV and movies in over 2 years.
Wow props for being a great dad and provider for your family. I don't think it's lazy to not want to disclose personal information so if you get pressured into it again just keep ignoring it. Hope you get more personal time soon. You definitely will when the kids get older.