Hello,
Just my 2 cents, I have a 30-32mw (lpm'd) 532 gun sight version, and at 1000ft on a gloss white painted wall, (edit-oops, found my notes and this was at 600ft, not 1000) I can see the dot easily by eye, as well as on trees at that distance. At or near the wall, it is more than visable with a size of about 3 inch diameter, (it does have exceptional divergance) but in no way too bright if looking right at it. And of course at night, this would be plenty.
As for any IR leakage from a green dpss, that is not focussed and comes out in a cone shape, and at 6-10ft or more, poses no real danger.
And believe it or not, my old 100mw red from WL (I know, I know, WL bites on all accounts, got it from a friend) is also visable at 600ft on the white wall in pure sun. And my 200 red is more than visable at this distance. At least for me.
I would suggest a 200mw focusable red for many reasons, Cheaper (around 50 bucks), way more durable, and focusable/waterproof/durable ones are plentiful. And if focussing the dot to a few inches in diameter, I can't see any issues with any eye damage to people close to the spot that you are pointing at. And the preceived brightness to those close to the dot won't be anything as drastic if it were a bright green dot. Thus reducing the chance of any flash blindness or distractions.
I did range tests of mw's at distances a few years back, but never got a chance to post the results here before some health issues forced my absence. I will see of I can find that and post it for you.
I say spend 50 bucks on a 200mw focusable red and give it a try. Plus green will never last if you are rough with it. Hopefully soon the green Diodes will become available with a decent price and output, but they are still over the horizon for the most part as of now.
Hope this helps,
Joe