Perhaps it should be said that my daughter is not going to be using it....nor has she been using the pencil torch. :p. I make the breakfast, she just eats it and helps clean up. I have no problem with eye protection.
I'm afraid it's not that easy. I've been working with HID projector optics for years and the entire purpose of the design is to evenly spread the light over a wide area.
Assuming you're looking for automotive use, the smallest (projector sized) option I've worked with is the Hella Micro DE...
This may sound silly, but just roll with it. I have enjoyed making toast and pancakes with pictures drawn in it (my 3 yo daughter loves it). I've been using a pencil torch but it's like trying to write with calligraphy with a rattle can. I've been pondering getting a laser pointer to do some...