Hey Jerry, you will probably spend a lot of your time wondering why your relationships lack that certain something: it's just you.
I hope you work it out mate.
BTW: @Admins kick me, ban me or whatever, in what world would I care?
A laser diode is highly coherent quantum system and it has been observed that only photons or particles from the same quantum source will display the type of interference you describe (non-classical interference). See this link for more information.