Help please

I ask here becouse I dont want to ask my parents

There is this girl in school who is like really hot, we used to talk alot and it was all good last year, buy this year, she wont talk to me
So then, I started hanging out with her sister, she is in 6th and I am in 7th grade. Then I tought the sister is even hotter, and has a better personality, but I dont want to ask her out, becouse it would feel like wierd, her brother is my friend, and her sister was...... so it would be wierd, I will ask her out soon, I think. But I dont know how, becouse she is younger, and in 6th grade and other kind of stuff......... so any advice ? what would you do in my case ?

Note - the one that I want to ask out is younger, the brother of the girl that I want to ask out is my friend, and her sister was the one I used to talk to laset year, but she wont talk to me for some reason.

I say to young to go out yet at your age. wait till grade 8-9 before dating but if you must ask her out see how it goes. other people opinions shouldnt get in the way of what you feel. thats what i believe if you like her you like her dont worry about her sister or anyone else go with what oyu think is right. Hope this helps.

Yeah, my daughter is 15 - and although I cannot block school romances, I CAN and DO prevent her from dating solo still. She will date when she is 30 or so I think.... LOL !!! naw, I just think until she is 16, she can cool her jets that's all

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I say ask her out, dating as in going out alone together could be difficult but being a stand up guy and being her boyfriend is completely acceptable in my opinion. As far as the akwardness, dont worry about it. your gonna run into akward moments your entire life, learning to deal with them now will only help you later in life. Move slowly, that means no talk of marrige or any of that, lol. Be a gentleman at all times!!! Treat her like a princess and be that knight in shinning armor. Buy her flowers for no reason. Tell her she is beautiful. Talk to her dad about cars. Above all, treat her with respect. These are teh keys to happiness. No parent can argue with that. Kepp in mind tho, no boy will ever be good enough for thier littel girl and your dad will feel the same about girls in regards to you. Keep it low key and casual. Have fun together. Best of luck to you.

edit: oh and talk to her brother immediatley after you talk to her. If she says she is interested ask for his blessing. and if you really want to score points ask her father if you have his permission to see his daughter, that will show him respect, and her bravery.

Be strong young padawan!

dude it's your life, do what you want with it. if you want to go out with her, do it!! it doesn't really matter that she's a grade younger than you really! i'd say go for it!

hmmm its all pretty good advice. tho really ya just gotta do what a gotta do. just try not to sound creepy or cliche .

tho i must say....an angry dad chasing you out of his daughters bedroom while you search for your pants is not a situation ya want to be in tho i dunno how "grades" work into Australian year levels, so you might be a little young for that....

anyway god luck, and let us know.

Perez-Allende said:

[quote author=millionaire link=1188446839/0#1 date=1188449431]I say to young to go out yet at your age. wait till grade 8-9 before dating but if you must ask her out see how it goes. other people opinions shouldnt get in the way of what you feel. thats what i believe if you like her you like her dont worry about her sister or anyone else go with what oyu think is right. Hope this helps.

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I am supposed to be in 8th grade, and before you ask, I did not got held back.......... and cach up with the word, this is the 21st century, people start dating from 5th grade

I will tell you a saying that a good friend of mine told me : The good Lord gave men two brains, and only enough blood to have one work at a time ! So, with THAT being said, make sure you keep your "Northern" head straight during school, and keep up with your studies - maybe not in 7th, 8th, or even 9th grade, but Chicks dig boys with brains...and I am talking about the one that is located closest to your ears ! [smiley=2vrolijk_08.gif] [smiley=evil.gif] [smiley=laugh.gif]

G !

Perez-Allende said:

I am supposed to be in 8th grade, and before you ask, I did not got held back.......... and cach up with the word, this is the 21st century, people start dating from 5th grade

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You did ask for opinions, so do not take offense to anyone giving you advice.

Now...you say the brother is a friend of yours. What does he think about all of this?

SenKat said:

I will tell you a saying that a good friend of mine told me :  The good Lord gave men two brains, and only enough blood to have one work at a time !  So, with THAT being said, make sure you keep your "Northern" head straight during school, and keep up with your studies - maybe not in 7th, 8th, or even 9th grade, but Chicks dig boys with brains...and I am talking about the one that is located closest to your ears !  [smiley=2vrolijk_08.gif] [smiley=evil.gif] [smiley=laugh.gif]

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The way I read it your saying im stupid....

Gazoo said:

[quote author=Perez-Allende link=1188446839/0#6 date=1188483317]
I am supposed to be in 8th grade, and before you ask, I did not got held back..........  and cach up with the word, this is the 21st century, people start dating from 5th grade

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You did ask for opinions, so do not take offense to anyone giving you advice.

Now...you say the brother is a friend of yours. What does he think about all of this?
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he does not now

Well, what I was getting at is would dating his sister interfere with with your friendship with him? I realize it didn't when you were dating his other sister, but you might want to let him know. Losing friends over a girl is not usually worth it and you might as well learn this now. You might not realize it though until you are a little older.. You are young and as they say, there are plenty of fish in the sea... ;D

Perez-Allende said:

[quote author=SenKat link=1188446839/0#7 date=1188483324]I will tell you a saying that a good friend of mine told me :  The good Lord gave men two brains, and only enough blood to have one work at a time !  So, with THAT being said, make sure you keep your "Northern" head straight during school, and keep up with your studies - maybe not in 7th, 8th, or even 9th grade, but Chicks dig boys with brains...and I am talking about the one that is located closest to your ears !  [smiley=2vrolijk_08.gif] [smiley=evil.gif] [smiley=laugh.gif]

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The way I read it your saying im stupid.... [/quote]

NO !!! I am definitely NOT say that, think that, or even remotely assume that ! You are YOUNG, that is all - and the "two-brains" issue affects ALL men - not just you, man - I can assure you of that To begin with, you are doing the right thing by asking about stuff - ANY stuff that you may not know about. It is always better to ask about things that you dont know about - I think I am starting to repeat myself again again LOL ! Take it easy, man...I do NOT think you are stupid, or anything I assure you, because if I DID - I would have told you by now

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In other words what SenKat is saying is think with your brains, and not with your............ ;D

Gazoo said:

In other words what SenKat is saying is think with your brains, and not with your............ ;D

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what teh hell is up with that? , there is said it. Hard to do but worth the wait. Trust me man you  dont want no kiddies at your age, thats an incredible amount of work and money. So keep it in the pants.


Sorry i'm drunk, im gonna go hit on the nieghbor girl below me, lol.

this place needs work if you can say teh names of body organs. thats just dumb. i can understand explicitives but the actual names that are in teh dictionary? that just lame.

What in the world is your problem..lol