Wrong to like somebody in a relationship?

You've all got it incredibly wrong! Your supposed to get her incredibly drunk first!




Seriously though, who else has a crush on the progressive insurance girl, Flo?
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i love all my girlfriends friends its normal bro....we just one big happy family... no for real keep your head high...dont show weakness be strong and happy for them ....give it some time she will come around....act like you dont care you moved on and they come runnin......

Of course it's not wrong that you still like her. Love doesn't just disappear.
The love is a part of you. You learn to live on despite it.

2: No, it's completely fine.

I sense something....

bloompyle said:

Is it wrong to like somebody even if they're in a relationsip? There's this girl, and we were great friends. And this is going to sound cheesy but, I asked her what she'd say if I were to ask her out. And she told me she'd say no, because she doesn't date. I said, fair enough, but wanted to know if she had feelings, she said possibly...wtf does that mean? Anyway, 2 weeks later, after a 3 day weekend, her and my friend come back to school dating...I felt heart broken. She was the ONLY girl I have felt a romantic / personal attraction to. And that's not a feeling that just goes away. We're still good friends, and I wish the two a fruitful future together. But I was just wondering, is it wrong that I still like her? I mean, anybody who has 'fallen in love' can agree that love doesn't just disappear if the other person is with somebody else or something. It stays there......I don't know how to do a poll, so here are the answers to the 'poll'

1: Yes, it's wrong.
2: No, it's completely fine.
3: Undecided.

Please explain yourself with your answer.

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Nah, it's not wrong to have feelings for someone that's in a relationship. It is wrong however to put the moves on them though if you know they're in a relationship.

Also, it seems to me she's just not into you. Don't take it personally, that's just the name of the game. There's plenty more fish in the sea, so keep fishing

Staying friends is just going to torture you in the long run, and waiting will do nothing. If she was interested in the least she would of hooked up with you in the first place. Instead she "tries" to let you down easy, and uses a lame excuse that she fell asleep on his lap. Thats like the old gag "she tripped and fell on my c*ck" story. Sorry but thats not being a friend. There are too many fish out their to waste time on one who treats you that way. Dump her and move on. You never know, she might decide she has deeper feeling for you after all, but its not going to happen with you sitting on the bench waiting for her.

I'm not waiting for her, at the moment I'm trying to stay single, Junior year in high school, and I'd rather not get into a relationship when it's my last year in Colorado, then it's off to Bama. Although, there are quite a lot of hotties here.....but in Bama (or my second choice, HAWAII!) there is never a winter, so it's it's short shorts and tiny shirts 365 days a year! WOOT WOOT! But I need to find somebody that cares too

PS: I might go across the street to my neighbor's grad party, I was invited, and I'm not gunna lie, she's a pretty lil thang
But long distance realationships never seem to work out, and depending on where she goes compared to where I go, it might become longer distance (no pun intended :crackup: )

One of my best frennz is a girl.
I met her through a mutual friend a very long time ago.
Now through the entire course of our friendship rarely both of us was single at the same time.. So we built a nice friendship. I really got to know her. One day she tells me how she has "feelings" for me.. The thing was.. I got to know her well enough that i knew i couldn't be with her.. there were certain things i know i would never put up with that i seen her do to bf's. Not only that but if it was to go downhill... it might be awkward within the group/s. i have seen it quite a few times.. So i said no. We ended up having a Looong talk about the things i just wrote. Even though we did have a physical attraction, it wouldn't werk as a relationship, I wouldnt put up with her sh** and she for mine. I never had to deel with all the nonsense that her bf's did so i never had to kiss her ass. I got to see what i was in for. So I frennzoned her. I would rather have a friend i could get along with then a gf i couldn't.

Now..Years later. I sometimes wake up with her in my bed, then she wakes up, gets dressed and goes home. LoL
I still dont have to put up with her s**t.


If you 2 are really "friends" Her relationships will not matter, but if you were just waiting for your time to make your move and i didnt work. i would say move on.
You both just to have a real talk.
Good Luck
:beer:

GoRdOn_B said:

Now..Years later. I sometimes wake up with her in my bed, then she wakes up, gets dressed and goes home. LoL
I still dont have to put up with her s**t.

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Now you wake up with her in your bed...did you go to sleep with her in your bed? Or does she sneak in and cuddle in the middle of the night?

In other words, is this that mythical f***-buddy/friend with benefits rarely seen in the wild, or is it some sort of weird, creepy midnight cuddling?

pullbangdead said:

Now you wake up with her in your bed...did you go to sleep with her in your bed? Or does she sneak in and cuddle in the middle of the night?

In other words, is this that mythical f***-buddy/friend with benefits rarely seen in the wild, or is it some sort of weird, creepy midnight cuddling?

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Yes..
we are fkbuddiez, but still good frennz

Well then...Congrats, good luck. It's a rare thing for it to work out, but if you've found the right girl for it, then enjoy it while you can.

pullbangdead said:

Well then...Congrats, good luck. It's a rare thing for it to work out, but if you've found the right girl for it, then enjoy it while you can.

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And work to make sure that she enjoys it as well -- M'Kay?

Peace,
dave

bloompyle said:

at the moment I'm trying to stay single, Junior year in high school, and I'd rather not get into a relationship when it's my last year in Colorado, then it's off to Bama.

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Never heard a 16y talk like that. All the ones I know/knew their balls burned so hot they'd hit a cantaloupe.

@ Daguin
Hold on...I think we'ce changed subjects here?!

@ T_J
Thank you??? I'm not sure how to respond to that. I guess I just care enough to not be a retard with relationships. I'd hate to get one here when I'll be leaving in a year and have to break up, or go long distance. Long distance never works and I hate to have to break up with somebody.... I guess I've just over-thought it.

Who said you should start a relationship? I dont think you read my advice correctly.

It is perfectly normal to have feelings for someone who is not interested, it's part of the growing up process.

You have a whole life ahead of you.

I was a hopeless romantic when I was young too, Heck I was already married in my senior year of high school, we were divorced 2 years after graduation.

When I look at what she has evolved into, I am so glad now we went down our separate paths.

At your age hormonal reactions are easily confused with true emotions.

In the end, scoring a "best friend" of the opposite gender who shares the same views, goals and common interests who is also willing to walk the road of life at your side is the "holy grail" of relationships.

Be patient, Mine never happened until I reached 40. Meanwhile, date 'em all and have your fun. Right now you NEED to be "selfish" and advance your education, build it into a career and when you least expect it, the right one will "come along" and it will be the best thing that ever happened.

Tech_Junkie said:

Never heard a 16y talk like that. All the ones I know/knew their balls burned so hot they'd hit a cantaloupe.

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Tech_Junkie said:

Who said you should start a relationship? I dont think you read my advice correctly.

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I wasn't saying anybody said I should start. In fact, I don't plan on getting into one soon. And yeah, I know what you mean, I have a few friends who will literally go arround and say 'I'd tap that' to every other girl they see...