Hiemal
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Hello guys.
I'm not normally one to beg, nor ask for assistance when it comes to these things but quite frankly, I'm scared.
I recently moved to Oregon, from New York to live with my fiancee in her parent's house. All has been well, but then today her mom had dropped the fact that, apparently, we'd need to move out by August to Corvallis (which is the college town we're planning on living at, to go to Oregon State University) because her brother needs the mattress I've been using. Apparently, the thought of me buying a mattress hasn't occurred to her and she seems relatively adamant about it. Oh, the reason why? Her mom hates her daughter with a passion. She finally gets a job today, and she is clearly less than excited because she responds with "Well, that sucks because you'll only have it for a couple months."
Then, later today, it seems that my fiancee's car has suddenly crapped out on us. We're not sure 100% what's wrong with it just yet but we're betting it's something to do with the fuel system, and it straight up just won't start.
I've been applying to jobs every single day since I've gotten here. I've had multiple interviews, but none have actually landed me a job just yet, and on top of that, if her mom truly expects us to move out by August any job that I have here will have been essentially, pointless. And moving to Corvallis, well, it's a college town, so there's not going to be many offers available to us at all. I only have about $1.7k saved up, which scares the everloving shit out of me because that's enough for about 1 month of apartment rent given the security deposit and everything else that goes into it.
Her mom isn't going to negotiate, and quite frankly she scares me.
Her car is broken so until then anything we do is kind of on hold, including the job that she was offered literally this morning.
I'm so stressed and frustrated and scared so much because all of this bad shit happens at once.
I don't know what to do.
I'm not normally one to beg, nor ask for assistance when it comes to these things but quite frankly, I'm scared.
I recently moved to Oregon, from New York to live with my fiancee in her parent's house. All has been well, but then today her mom had dropped the fact that, apparently, we'd need to move out by August to Corvallis (which is the college town we're planning on living at, to go to Oregon State University) because her brother needs the mattress I've been using. Apparently, the thought of me buying a mattress hasn't occurred to her and she seems relatively adamant about it. Oh, the reason why? Her mom hates her daughter with a passion. She finally gets a job today, and she is clearly less than excited because she responds with "Well, that sucks because you'll only have it for a couple months."
Then, later today, it seems that my fiancee's car has suddenly crapped out on us. We're not sure 100% what's wrong with it just yet but we're betting it's something to do with the fuel system, and it straight up just won't start.
I've been applying to jobs every single day since I've gotten here. I've had multiple interviews, but none have actually landed me a job just yet, and on top of that, if her mom truly expects us to move out by August any job that I have here will have been essentially, pointless. And moving to Corvallis, well, it's a college town, so there's not going to be many offers available to us at all. I only have about $1.7k saved up, which scares the everloving shit out of me because that's enough for about 1 month of apartment rent given the security deposit and everything else that goes into it.
Her mom isn't going to negotiate, and quite frankly she scares me.
Her car is broken so until then anything we do is kind of on hold, including the job that she was offered literally this morning.
I'm so stressed and frustrated and scared so much because all of this bad shit happens at once.
I don't know what to do.