Coming Out of the Closet! Hurra!

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Hello all fellow LPF members!

Today, I want to announce something that i have had on my mind for a very long time now. First, some background info:

I am a 14 (almost 15) year high school student. I am half Asian-White, i have good grades, I am a good student, and i have a very healthy social life. If you have seen one of my recent threads, i recently acquired a girlfriend (You will see why that is important later)

For a few years now, i have been trying to figure myself out in regard to my ***ual orientation. I have always liked girls, and at the same time, i always liked guys too, but i figured it would go away with time (it didn't). After much deliberation, I came to know who i am. And now that i have, i can't focus, and i keep thinking about it all the time. I have become more aware of the stereotypes that come with this status, and i am more sensitive to the “jokes” that people make about abnormal ***ual orientations. It feels horrible to have no-one know the truth;

So, hey there LPF! I am KRNAZNBOY, and i am bi***ual!

In case you don’t know:
noun
1. a person who is ***ually attracted to both men and women (not necessarily equally)

I came here first because i knew you guys would support me, or give me helpful advice. I have only come out to one good friend so far, and i am slowly giving close friends hints at my newly discovered ***ual orientation.

My parents are a different story, They come from places/cultures where “abnormal” ***ual orientations are not easily accepted, and especially as my father has hinted many times that he would be disappointed if i were not hetero. I am trying to hold off coming out to them.

Only one person on this forum knows me pretty well, and we talk on a regular basis, and i think he may be surprised.

If you happen to know me outside the forum, just know i would like to keep this on the DL.

I also came here first for kind of a practice run. So i can get it right when i start telling important people.

Anyways, that’s that, If that changes how you like me, oh well.

Who would have known that the first community i would come out to was LPF. It just shows how much you guys mean to me.

Thanks for reading
-Matt

Extras:

Common stereotypes for Bi***uals:

"bi***uals just want to F***" - nah, it just means that they have a larger pool to chose their mate from

"bi***uals are just confused" - bullshit, i know when i am confused

"bi***uality is just a transition step from gay to straight or straight to gay" - nope, i have been like this for years and it isn't changing

"bi***uals can never be happy" - false, bi***uality does NOT mean that if one is with a woman, they crave a man, and if they are with a man, they want a woman. Again, it simply means their are more fish in the sea the person can choose from. Either *** can make them happy.

Took guts. Good for you.

lol when I saw the thread title I though it meant you pulled some huge badass gas head out of some closet and got it working again. darn you lpf you've filled my mind with lasers.

Im Bi***ual; Coming Out of the Closet! Hurra!

Blackwolf said:

lol when I saw the thread title I though it meant you pulled some huge badass gas head out of some closet and got it working again. darn you lpf you've filled my mind with lasers.

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Re: Im Bi***ual; Coming Out of the Closet! Hurra!

I also was surprised what I read, i tought it would be something you found in your closet I normally don't support things like that but the way you explain it helps me to understand you more. I never thinked that bi***uality is that normal. I always thinked it would be more like 'gay' amd that the people who are bi are like pu**ies or that. The only thing I can tell you is, Thank you you opened my horizon a little bit.
I think its ok as long as you are not 'gay'. Thats the only thing I don't like. (No racism or hating here pleasr, its my opinion)

I think you will be accepted as before

Lol...."coming".

I have nothing but full support for the LGBT community, with the exception of the forced feminine "valley girl" voice too many of the gay men use. And let's face it, it's annoying as hell when women talk like that too

I salute you for your bravery, and wish you the best of luck for anyone or any other group of people you still need to come out to.

Don't really wanna make it tough,
I just wanna tell you that I had enough.
It might sound crazy,
But it ain't no lie,
Baby, bi, bi, bi

Good for you

Just because you like both female and male genders dosen't personally make me change the way I view you. You are/have always been a very nice, mature and helpful person and was willing to gladly help me whenever I needed it!

If this is your true self then be it, don't worry about some remarks people can make, as this only shows their immaturity to understand things like this. You only have 1 life, just live it and have fun

LOL as my gearhead friend says, whatever turns your crank! lol Besides I think the pocketrocket I have was built by you and It is definitely my favorite laser !You cant be all that bad! LOL All the best!

Why are gay guys so good at fashion?

They have spent a lot of time in the closet.

Oh! (rim shot) haha. Corny, but acceptable.

Thanks guys! This helps a lot!

And I promise, I talk normally. Although I can fake the valley girl voice really well . At the same time, I am good at a lot of fake accents/ways of speaking, so its not like I am switching

Thanks for the support
-Matt

Takes guts to post this :beer: you're supported here +rep

Good for you! Got my support. +rep

Just a few things. It always makes me a little sad that people have to worry so much about what others think in regards to their 5exuality. I am fully supportive of you and I really hope your parents can see past their blind fear of different lifestyles. I just hope you know that many, MANY people go through what you are currently going through and that you will make it past the stage of having to tell people and then you will just get to be yourself. And that is the biggest thing. Don't let society pressure you to be something that you are not. A lifestyle of conformity is a caged one. Live free, love whoever the fuck you want, and treat those around you the same way you hope they will treat you when you come out to them.

Hopefully somewhere in that rambling I made some sense. If not just know that this forum is here to support you. All of us. Even the ones who don't feel like it.

Stay classy Matt
-Isaac

Congratulations, that is a move to be proud of - it must take a lot of guts to come out of the closet in the United States - good on you for doing it!